“I have inherent worth. It cannot be raised by my strengths or lowered by my weaknesses or defects of character.” ~Pia Melody
Perhaps you’ll resonate with the way I am feeling as of late: I tell myself I am enough. As I am, I have always felt enough. But I find it difficult to accept this fact without feeling that I must earn it. I feel like I need to do a lot of things for validation, such as a self-care routine, achieve a number of goals or accomplish enough.
I know in my heart that I was created to serve. I am here to generate love and beauty. I am a Capricorn sun—worker bee; Virgo rising—organizer; Cancer moon—deep feeler. I can understand all of it. It’s hard for me to accept that I can be worthy without these things.
My entire life I’ve believed that we should be constantly striving to evolve and do better and feel more and be better. It makes sense. Even checking the box of “work on giving yourself grace” makes sense. It is not actionable and even unattainable to expect me to feel worthy for just being alive. For…